Unapologetic Real Woman responds to Unapologetic Side Chick
October 31, 2013 § 7 Comments
Last week I got an email and I put it on my blog. It seems that the main girl (if you wish) saw the post and decided to respond. She responded in the comments section
Wow when I had this shown to me today, I thought I must be dreaming , really?. Could someone stoop so low, but then when I put it in context, I realised that being suprised would be a waste of my time.
I should not have expected more. You see , I am the woman who this unapologetic side chick is speaking about. And yes I dated and was engaged to LD.
Since we are dropping names though , I believe that this chick should stop being a coward and step out from behind her fake veil. Better yet , I will call you out. (***** ***), this is low even for you. (Note from blog owner, I made the decision to delete the name that was mentioned here because the original email sent to me was meant to anonymous and I keep it thus unless the writer of the email asks me to use her name).
Every story had a version, in this case there are three. Her version, my version and his. And since you decided to use this platform missy , I will meet you half way.
So here it is, You claim to have been my friend, all those days we spoke and there you were wearing a smile on your face , whilst all the time you knew you were turning you dirty dagger deep in my back.
I gave you many opportunities to be “honest” with me, and yet you chose to lie to my face everytime. You claim that you were hoping that for” once” a man would be honest with you, well sisi, how can you expect that when you yourself don’t know what telling the truth is?
You see sisi before you start calling the kettle black have a look at yourself first. When all it takes is for a walk down the street, for you to open up your legs to some guy, it speaks volumes about you, and I shudder to think how many walks down the street you have had.
You say that you used to look at me and think , “rather you than me” but what you fail to realise is that for one, our relationship ending has nothing to do with you, so don’t flatter yourself. I realise I have with me what you don’t and maybe never have, and that is SELF RESPECT.
I see how you write about LD and pretend that he sold you some dream. You are right about something, yes he is driven, yes he is apirational and yes he has a lot going for himself, I have watched this man, pick himself up and achieving things beyond your imagination. But then in truth there isn’t much you can learn about a person, when all you know is stolen moments, on the floor of toilets at dingy nightclubs or, on your knees in the backseat of a car. You talk about having benefits of a relationship, Do you even know what that is? O my you are so dilusional . I guess that explains why you spent those months , at a psychiatric hospital. O people didn’t know that about you, and now they do! It also explains your use of elaborate colour when it comes to the truth.
Miss unapolegetic side chick, let me introduce myself , I am the unapologetic REAL WOMAN, and today I will tell you, that its because of tramps like you that we, as woman continue to have a bad name in society, why we continue to be viewed as being unable, weak, and are never recognised for the amazing souls and incredible strong achievers that we truly are.
You give woman a bad name. How you are able to live with yourself is beyond me. While you spend your life trying to seek and cling to attention, the rest of us real woman continue to live our lives. Go get help or better yet, take your pills, cause I for one, don’t believe a word you say. Stop tryna destroy people ‘s lives and reputations, because you didn’t get what we both know you wanted, and get a life of your own. I would rather be me , than you. So Sisi thanks , but no thanks!!
After seeing this response, Unapologetic Side Chick asked me to remove her post. I did.